- Everyone you marry has a weakness
Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you won’t get the best of his/her strength.
- Everyone you marry has a dark history
No one is an angel, therefore, avoid digging into the past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away; forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed, so focus on the present and the future!
- Every marriage has its own challenges
Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in times of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day!
- Every marriage has different levels of success
Don’t compare your marriage with that of anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.
- To marry is to declare a war
When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are; ignorance, prayerlessness, lack of forgiveness, adultery, third party influence, stinginess, stubbornness, lack of love, rudeness, wife battery, laziness, divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
- There is no perfect marriage
There is no ready-made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a car with gear oil, gear box, back hassles and if these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road, exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.
- God cannot give you the complete person you desire
God gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve.
- To marry is to take a risk
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she is slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.
- Marriage is not a contract, it is permanent
Marriage needs total commitment; love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce.
10. Every marriage has a price to pay
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you do not deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage; you cannot love without giving and sacrificing.
May God give us the grace and wisdom to build a heaven on earth marriage.